Let’s go DEEP today… Grief or Gratitude? Which is OK?

  While flipping through my “Teaching of Buddha” book today, I found these post-it notes Crystal left around the house on our 17th year anniversary. I was instantly filled with gratitude and joy for the time I was able to spend with my love. My heart filled with a gratitude that I could never put […]

When depression came knocking, I beat it’s ass!

  My entire life I could never understand depression. I mean mentally, sure, I understood the concept. But it was only a surface understanding of something that was completely foreign to me. Kinda like describing sex. Do you remember what it was like before? Or after? You heard people talk about it, you understood it, […]

Being alone sucks…

  Before streaming, before the internet, before CD’s, there was the time of radio. Even then, I carried imprints from my past and wounds for my future.  In 1982 one song captured my heart. I had to know the depths of it. (yup I was 11, but a pisces moon growing up in the most […]

Stop with all the sexual advances!

  God sent me a friend who needed help. I didn’t mean to make her cry, but I cared enough to share the truth with her.  She was troubled in her relationship. Her partner always turns things “sexual”. The frustration was getting unbearable.  “Why won’t he stop all this sexual stuff and start talking about […]

Marriage and relationship issues

  Before we start, let me thank you for being a rare and amazing person! In a world of “30 seconds or less”, you’re one of a handful who take the time to listen, learn and grow. Be proud of that. Own how truly rare you are! Thank you 🙂 So, like most of us, […]

The coincidences begin

  They started slowly, and over time, but they changed my life. MESSAGE #1 – Quit lying to yourself. I was excited and nervous about my first public presentation I was about to give. It was 1999 and I’d been dating on the internet for a couple years. After falling madly in love with a […]

My daughter Nicole wrote this for you

  My daughter felt compelled to write it and felt like someone here needed to hear it and to share her experience. Let her and I know what you think 🙂     Love is a very complicated thing. We show it in so many ways, all of us differently. Sometimes the way we show […]

The Hitchhiker – an encounter with the divine

  Every story I’ve shared actually happened. This story is no different. It was 2 days before my wedding to Crystal and my heart was heavy. I’d been married before and while I would not change anything about my past, I was hesitant to marry again, even though I’d been told by God, this was […]

The Soulmate Contract… we’ve been lied to!

  To give love, be loved and to demonstrate love is something we deeply enjoy. You’re reading this means we have a lot in common, so love must be in your soul.   What you may not know, is that my love and I had a rocky start.  We were on and off again for years […]

Shedding fear and massive transformation in under 2 hours!

  As a student of psychology and personal growth, I am always on the lookout for experiences that shake my soul and journey. A few months ago, I witnessed something that left me in awe and utter amazement. During an event hosted by Bart & Sunny Miller, something magical unfolded. Within hours, the attendees shed […]