CHOOSE WISELY

  The world is a beautiful house of mirrors. Well, beautiful when we look for the beauty in the mirror. Every person, event, emotion, observation… literally everything is a mirror lesson. For more on this, study The 7 Essene mirrors, or most any religion’s core message. Last night’s mirror is sitting with me this morning […]

The Green M&M’s

  Over the decades I’ve been elated to help couples remember why they chose each other after the honeymoon period has melted away.  Like an M&M held in the hands too long, the color has started to  wash away. The sweat of the relationship’s fire is just too much. The more fire, the faster that […]

Knowing This Could Save A Life… The importance of Love Bids

  She looked at me, half concerned, half upset. She truly didn’t understand… “Why are you upset? What you said didn’t require a response?” she said plainly. She was right. It didn’t. My simple statement had nothing to do with the statement itself. After years of frustration on both of our ends, I eventually learned […]

Stop with all the sexual advances!

  God sent me a friend who needed help. I didn’t mean to make her cry, but I cared enough to share the truth with her.  She was troubled in her relationship. Her partner always turns things “sexual”. The frustration was getting unbearable.  “Why won’t he stop all this sexual stuff and start talking about […]

“You never listen!” – has this every happened?

  The key to finding or being happy in a relationship. About 2 years ago, my wife and I were having some communication struggles.  We would get into an argument over something silly and I couldn’t understand how she couldn’t see the bigger picture of the argument. It was an ongoing frustration for me.  Because […]