The Green M&M’s

  Over the decades I’ve been elated to help couples remember why they chose each other after the honeymoon period has melted away.  Like an M&M held in the hands too long, the color has started to  wash away. The sweat of the relationship’s fire is just too much. The more fire, the faster that […]

The Sins of The Father, science proving scripture?

  The face he made when he was angry always scared me.  The raw power my father scared everyone. What flowed through him could never be explained in words… only felt by everyone around him.  When Marvel released the new version of “The Hulk”, that was pretty much it. He was the nicest guy… until […]

A 10 year long synchronicity

  The party was just “meh”, I never really liked parties much. My date, on the other hand, was stellar! I asked if she wanted to have a smoke on the patio. She sat on my lap and the smoke from her Clove cigarette wafted around us like some sort of magic potion. I always […]

Marriage and relationship issues

  Before we start, let me thank you for being a rare and amazing person! In a world of “30 seconds or less”, you’re one of a handful who take the time to listen, learn and grow. Be proud of that. Own how truly rare you are! Thank you 🙂 So, like most of us, […]

The coincidences begin

  They started slowly, and over time, but they changed my life. MESSAGE #1 – Quit lying to yourself. I was excited and nervous about my first public presentation I was about to give. It was 1999 and I’d been dating on the internet for a couple years. After falling madly in love with a […]

The Soulmate Contract… we’ve been lied to!

  To give love, be loved and to demonstrate love is something we deeply enjoy. You’re reading this means we have a lot in common, so love must be in your soul.   What you may not know, is that my love and I had a rocky start.  We were on and off again for years […]

Shedding fear and massive transformation in under 2 hours!

  As a student of psychology and personal growth, I am always on the lookout for experiences that shake my soul and journey. A few months ago, I witnessed something that left me in awe and utter amazement. During an event hosted by Bart & Sunny Miller, something magical unfolded. Within hours, the attendees shed […]

Lost Your Drive & Desire… You’re not alone!

  I’ve been on a personal journey for a couple decades now. One that involved me diving into the depths of who “Mike” actually is. It’s definitely reshaped my understanding of drive, desire, and love.  Honestly, some would call my entire experience an “existential crisis” and label it some mid-life event. The truth is, our […]

“You never listen!” – has this every happened?

  The key to finding or being happy in a relationship. About 2 years ago, my wife and I were having some communication struggles.  We would get into an argument over something silly and I couldn’t understand how she couldn’t see the bigger picture of the argument. It was an ongoing frustration for me.  Because […]

It’s blasphemy… I asked the wrong questions :(

  Before I tell you this story, please know I tell it from a place of already being healed. The story and past hold no power or pain over me. It’s a memory without emotion.  I now feel compassion for those who “wronged me” and those who continue to today as I undertake my great […]