WHAT’S YOUR FOCUS?

WARNING: THE DANCE THAT CHANGED IT ALL… I stared into the eyes of my wife on our first wedding dance, she was so beautiful. She held the back of my neck she whispered into my ear something that changed my life forever… “I quit taking my birth control, I’m ready to have your baby”. That […]

The year that lasted 3 years…

Hi Friend Most of you know me pretty personally by now and as you know… it’s been a heck of a year for me and my family. We lost my wife and my dad. We saw financial setbacks, personal grief, spiritual surrender, and we climbed mountain after mountain of “challenge”. “Be careful what you wish […]

THE DINNER CRUISE

Crystal, Nicole and I sat at a large 15 person dinner table in the cruise dining hall. There was a lot of casual conversation and I loved asking people about themselves. So I really enjoyed those Marketers Cruises, if you want to join me on one, PM me. Anyhow, I asked the person next to […]

JUST BE YOURSELF!?

What great advice, right? Just be yourself!  But what if you don’t have the slightest idea “who you are”?  Or worse, you chose who you are?  Are you the angry woman in the grocery store?  Are you the misogynist man, objectifying women?  Are you the spiritual giver who is attracted to light and love?  Are […]

Dear Spiritual Seeker

Love Hands

I Love You and I’m Sorry. It started as me wanting to be a better person. Focused heavily on my own growth and personal development. Always asking, how can I be a better father, husband and human? At some point, I realized, in order to be “better”, there had to be a “less better” version […]

DEAR SPIRITUAL SEEKERS,

I Love You and I’m Sorry. It started as me wanting to be a better person. Focused heavily on my own growth and personal development. Always asking, how can I be a better father, husband and human? At some point, I realized, in order to be “better”, there had to be a “less better” version […]

EVER FEEL INSECURE?

Have you ever felt a little less than 100% secure in a relationship? Maybe he or she says something that makes you doubt yourself or your value? Maybe you’ve had past experiences that keep you doubting? We tend to think that only the person who “acts insecure” in a relationship is insecure. This is a […]

“WE HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON ANY MORE!!”

Being public about my spiritual journey the last 20 years, I get all kinds of crazy questions from fellow seekers. Stuff you can’t imagine, but stuff I love! The single most common questions are about personal relationships.  As a person starts to explore and embrace God, The Universe, Divinity, The Self, The Divine Feminine, or […]

MISTAKES OR LESSONS?

  Patterns are all I see now. Mine, yours, theirs, ours, it’s all patterns to me. One I avoided recognizing for a long time was my own pattern after my wife had passed.  I longed for what was taken from me; FAMILY Having spent so much time and energy on becoming the best family man […]

CHOOSE WISELY

  The world is a beautiful house of mirrors. Well, beautiful when we look for the beauty in the mirror. Every person, event, emotion, observation… literally everything is a mirror lesson. For more on this, study The 7 Essene mirrors, or most any religion’s core message. Last night’s mirror is sitting with me this morning […]